Crossing Over

Loved ones are so precious. We miss them when they go. Even though I can see my loved ones after they cross, I understand the pain of not having them in my day to day life. That being said, I have had a lot of questions about that process. Here are some of the things I have learned by working as a medium every day.

When a soul will cross over is never directly answered by the Angels. They say the soul is in negotiation up until the time of passing- so it is impossible to determine. One thing I do see in common is around 5-6 days of someone passing an Angel will hover directly over the body. Within inches the aura of the Angel blends with the aura of the physical body. I usually hear that the person passes within a week of seeing that.

“What happens to a soul when it crosses over?” Is a question I’m often asked. I have to say it gets answered in different ways by the loved one’s that appear in my daily sessions. Here are some explanations, but there is always more to learn. They say they have no recognition of any pain, they describe sudden death very much like a black out. A lot of times they will see themselves above themselves, they often feel as if they are completely alive and are full of joy. They will often appear young and the age they thought they were at their best.

The Angels explain this, when a soul crosses over it has a choice to go to the light and begin a replay of their entire life’s journey and feel what they did to everyone they affected- so as to have complete empathy- I call this “processing”. Depending on what needs to heal on a soul level they can be here for a while. If some part of their ego chooses to stay “earthbound” they will remain stuck in a pattern of thought, sometimes worrying or trying to replay something they want to undo. They can also remain “earthbound” due to addictions or attachments to loved ones. These souls with Angelic assistance can be released and brought to the light as well and begin their processing.

I feel like there is a lot more to learn about this as I go.

One thing I do know for sure, a soul’s work is never done.

Heavenly Vision

I spend about 7 hours a day working with loved ones on the “other-side” and I learn something new every day.

Who do I learn from?

Your loved ones. 

I am continually fascinated with what they see. 

They are able to see the future of their loved ones here. They actually see what is coming for you, and tell me what they see. It appears that once a soul has ascended into the light, the veil is no longer there. 

They are able to see the energy of love leave the body and who it is heading toward. Some are able to see an aerial view of all of their loved ones at once, and even be with them all at once. 

They are able to see your soul and know if you are really happy and if not, they see what would make you happy.

They are able to see new life before it arrives, they know way before we do that a baby is on the way.

I call them “human angels”, because our loved ones get angelic abilities and like the Archangels, their purpose is to help and above all love.

Can they see me in the shower?!

When I first started seeing spirits on the other side, I was so amazed by seeing them, that at first, it didn’t cross my mind to think they can see me. Then one day I realized- Wait! They can see me! Can they see me naked in my shower? Are they watching my every move? Are they watching me in my bedroom?

This began to make to feel uncomfortable with visits from my Grandma and my father and got very embarrassed and less excited about this gift. I had already surpassed all of the religious conflict I grew up with when I had this realization, but this was a new one… I once again asked the Angels to help me understand. And of course begged them, if you guys want me to do this – I don’t want them seeing me naked!

About six months later the answer came through from doing readings for others. Their loved ones would come through, I could feel the amount of love they would bring to them and I could see what they saw through their eyes on the other side, they saw colors- perhaps a shirt color or object color nearby, but the main thing they focused on was the state of the loved one’s soul. Were they happy? Were they ok? The physical body was so irrelevant to them from the other side. They were more concerned with the level of joy the loved one was experiencing. This is how they “see” us Archangel Gabriel made me understand in prayer. They see the state of our soul. They see our lives from up above and see if there is anything they may need to help us with.
You see our loved ones “see” us with “Angel eyes”.

So, good new to those of you getting visits- you don’t have to run and get dressed!

Angelic Confusion Solution

I don't know how much of my life I spend being confused about this, that or the other.  And, I notice that I'm not alone. In doing the work I do, I see on a daily basis how situations confuse people and watch how the Angels figure it out for them. What I'm seeing comes down to this, when we get an intuitive message in our heart, we have absolutely no control over what it is. What we can control is whether we listen to it or not. When we argue with it, or over analyze it with our mind or simply choose to not to listen to it, the confusion begins.  

We confuse ourselves! 

AHHHH! Trust me, I've seen how I myself can use logic or reason, to push away the often times not logical message of the heart. We don't have to listen to the messages the Angels give us in our intuition, but I'm starting to think it might make our lives easier and a lot more efficient.

On the flip side, sometimes the Angels will intentionally confuse us to make us wait - that can refer more to timing.  But what I'm talking about here is when we are arguing with what our soul knows is the truth. 

It's when we do that, that we confuse ourselves.

I See Things, I Hear Things...

I spend my days talking and communicating with loved ones of others on the other side. As a child, I spent my days trying to figure out what I was seeing and hearing and what the heck was going on! I think I still do that, I’m always curious and always want to know… That being said, in my daily work I see such peace come from loved ones on the other side and over here too as they connect. I can feel it too, I can feel the emotional shift when someone says what they want to say. I learn and feel something new everyday. After doing this work for many years, and over all message is coming through. “If we don’t say what we need to say while we are alive, we will spend so much energy on the other-side trying to say it.”

When someone is crossing over, there is so much wrestling emotionally and so much negotiating going on- whether the person is conscious or unconscious. They will be arguing with loved ones who they didn’t resolve an issue with who are already on the other side, they will be trying to have the courage to say something to the loved one’s over here, if they are able to communicate and even if they are not. If it gets said, crossing over is so peaceful and they go directly to the light. If it does not, the soul will often become stuck and restless trying to convey the message they didn’t get to say or didn’t want to say before crossing. I see this time and time again and I also see and feel the release that happens when it’s all “said” and done. My point it is, we who are here and alive can learn so much from this. We must say our truth, we must live our truth. We must say what we need to say to those we love- NOW. Holding it in and not relaying it while we are alive only causes more issues for us on the other side and our loved ones who are still here. It can also cause health and emotional issues in the physical body, it doesn’t go away… Trust me I see it all the time.

I love how sweet the Angels are… use them to help you say something now your heart is telling you, you need to say. They will give you a loving way to express it. Use them to help you have the courage to live your truth- with love. Do it now, while you are here and alive! Otherwise, you will spend your time on the other side trying to do it and believe me it’s a lot harder from over there.